hmm..this is a lttle tough. If someone close to me dies, i would think of all the good times we had together. How that person changed me and made an impact on my life. I would then hope that the person who died is in a place where he's not suffering. Another way is to express how i feel to people which is really hard for me to do. Have distractions ( playing video games, excercising, watching tv ect.)which would only work temporarily. Then as time goes on i accept it and try to move on with that person living inside me.